Hitting on Girls: there is a time and a place

Bars, cafes, clubs, dog parks, work, laundry mats, street festivals, you name it but NOT WHILE WALKING DOWN THE STREET.

Why not?

1. Do you really think you'll get a number? Your chances are very low.
2. People walk for one reason, to get somewhere! No, they don't want to be harassed.  
3. It's skeevy

So this post goes out to my femmes. Often times I see skeevy men and sometimes lesbians holler at a girl on the street like she is a piece of prime rib.  No. You ain't gettin' any, so it is time to stop. 

LezQ Acceptable Behavior for Flirting While Strolling:

1. Check the girl out, look her up and down. Girl looks good for a reason, she wants people to acknowledge.
2. Flash those pearly whites (make it a smirk for those pearly yellows...) 
3. If she smiles back, combine #2 with a simple "Hey"
4. If you think you got the in, spark a convo. If not, KEEP WALKING.  Girls like attention from cute girls but keep it subtle and simple. Most likely you've made her day and she has made yours.

The "3 Day Rule"

I had a discussion the other day with one of my guy friends about the 3 day rule of contacting a girl you recently met. Over the years, my girl friends have noticed that it usually takes about 3 days for someone to contact them.  My girlfriend thinks this is plain idiotic and knocks me in the head every time I mention this "3 day rule." But here are the reasons why this rule exists:

1. If you a playa, you can skip this. You know the game. 
2. Contacting a girl right away makes her think you are a bit desperate. 
3. Or you have nothing else going on in your life. 
4. It gives her imagination some room to dance.  What did you look like again? I wonder if I'll get a text? But I thought we flirted? etc
5. It prolongs the fun.

Okay, so here's my 2 cents on this rule:

1 cent: If you had a short flirty conversation and got her number then the rule is in play. The 3 is arbitrary. It can be 1 or 2 days but take your time. Remember, make it fun.

2 cents: If you really hit it off with a girl, it is no holds barred. You know, she knows, stop f*cking around.

I clearly made this 3 day rule up but it seems to exist in the dating realm. But like all rules, sometimes they are meant to be broken. (Unless the rules are Golden ;) )